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Message: The ultimate proof that size does matter?

From: Joe Sent: 15 April 2003 Message 1 of 7

The following is a copy of a message posted by a (previous) member. (I've re-posted it as a new message because the original message was on a thread with a spam message, and the spam message was even reproduced as an attachment to the member's message!)

From : Ben_Dune Sent: 4/14/2003 7:18 PM
Hey crew,

To each his own. I am not into this fisting of the pussy. I do not think it is sexy. Maybe that will change in the future. But now I am totally turned off by the practice. It is the ultimate proof that size does matter. That is hard for me to come to grips with.

I am gracefully bowing out and asking to be removed from this club. It was great exploring the curiousity. But what am I to do with the pussy after a Louville Slugger has been thrusted in it??????? That is so intimedating.

From: Joe Sent: 15 April 2003 Message 2 of 7

Dear Ben,

I'm guessing you'll never see this reply since I've already granted your request and removed you from the membership list. But I'm going to reply to your message anyway since some of the other members may consider the points you've raised to be interesting.

I can't help sensing a very egotistical attitude in your message, combined with lots of insecurity and a total lack of understanding of what relationships and sexuality are all about.

You're saying that the woman's pleasure isn't the important thing. The important thing for you is that the woman should be dependent on your penis to give her pleasure. You see larger alternatives, such as a Louisville Slugger baseball bat, to be a threat to your position as the provider of pleasure, and you can't cope with the fear that you may no longer be number one in the woman's desires. ("That is so intimedating.")

There are a lot of errors in this line of thought.

- Women don't love objects. Women love men who make them feel loved and take care of them, and incidentally give them sexual pleasure, but that's not their top priority.

- Objects alone don't turn women on (in general). Objects can be great as sex toys in an environment where there is mutual sexual excitement. A baseball bat is an exciting sex toy when the man and woman together both find it exciting. Otherwise it's just a silly baseball bat.

- Size may be important for some women's sexual pleasure, but why should any man consider that to be a problem? This group contains hundreds of pictures and messages which all state the same thing: The man with the world's smallest penis can give tons of sexual pleasure to the woman with the world's largest pussy if he just uses his imagination a bit. (It also helps if the man and the woman like each other or, better yet, love each other.)

- Sexuality is a very diffuse and flexible concept and is to a large extent based on mutual enjoyment and mutual excitement. You and your partner should be tuning in to each other's desires and fantasies. If this results in pussy stretching becoming a sexually exciting activity for both of you, then you are both having good sex. Limiting your sexuality to the insertion of the penis into the vagina in the missionary position becomes rather boring at some point.

I'd also like to comment on this question of yours:

> But what am I to do with the pussy after a Louville Slugger has been thrusted in it???????

I can tell you what Cindy and I did after that photo session. I inserted my penis and my right hand into Cindy's pussy (what we call our "modified missionary position") and after Cindy had come three or four times (I had a hard time waiting, but giving Cindy as much pleasure as possible is important to me) I came like a bomb inside Cindy's wonderful pussy.

That's what it's all about. :-)

Joe

PS. I'm not objecting to the fact that you don't like fisting and that it doesn't turn you on. That's fine - to each his own. What I'm objecting to is the arguments that you use to justify your dislike, and the comments you were indirectly making about those of us who do like fisting.

From: coal_snake Sent: 16 April 2003 Message 3 of 7

well said.

From: roy1 Sent: 17 April 2003 Message 4 of 7

Well said. I enjoy providing a female with the pleasure of fisting. The intense pleasure it provides those who enjoy it is fantastic and am pleased to provide it.

From: TEXAS Sent: 17 April 2003 Message 5 of 7

Hell after all that what can I say. Joe said it all.......

From: summerdgo Sent: 18 April 2003 Message 6 of 7

Nothing compares to the penis. After a loving encounter with my husband's hand, (I'm not quite in the baseball bat league) I can't wait to experience the entirely different feel of his penis. Thet's like asking what to do with the scoop of chocolate ice cream that's left on your double dip cone after you've eaten the vanilla.
Of course size matters. When I want something hand-sized, I want a hand, but when I want something penis-sized, a penis works remarkably well.

From: KT 34 Sent: 10 May 2003 Message 7 of 7

Oh dear
I really feel sorry for the poor guy. He is obviously very insecure.

Speaking as a woman I endorse everything that Joe has said. He is spot on. (As usual)

Will most men ever understand us girlies, I think not!

Thank God for men like my partner who shares the same attitude as Joe.

Katy
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