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Message: What is the best lubricant ?

From: iluvemlarger Sent: 11 April 2002 Message 1 of 23

my wife and i are trying to get her streatched to the point where we can achive fisting but i am not sure what the best or most slippery lubricant is, we are getting close but vasaline does not seem to be the best. am i wrong or is there somthing better?

From: Joe Sent: 12 April 2002 Message 2 of 23

Vaseline is definitely not a good idea. It can irritate the vaginal skin and is very difficult to wash away afterwards.

Cindy and I prefer water-based lubes such as KY Jelly.

There have been several threads about lubrications on this message board and on the old message board back when we were at Excite Clubs. Try looking under "Excite club archives" and/or searching back through this message board.

From: iluvemlarger Sent: 12 April 2002 Message 3 of 23

Thank you Joe, i will try that and i also will look at the other threads as well. this is somthing that i really find sexually exciting and my wife does as well bou she has reservations because she is not crazy for the vasaline either so this will be a great help! i love your site and your pics as well you are a very lucky couple! thanks again,Randy

From: wubbunny Sent: 14 April 2002 Message 4 of 23

Astroglide is the best lube i've found so far!

From: drfaustus Sent: 17 April 2002 Message 5 of 23

we never used any lube at all, since my GF likes to be fisted only when licked the same time. I do need a lot of saliva over a long period and almost run dry some times! But it saves me from the yucky chemical taste and is probably less irritating to the vaginal tissue as well.

drfaustus

From: ntskwll35 Sent: 18 April 2002 Message 6 of 23

I have fisted my g/f without added lube but the slipperiest solution I
have found is to prime her pussy with a aqueous gel like KY and apply a
layer of a silicon oil like ID Millennium to your hand or object of choice.

From: ntskwll35 Sent: 18 April 2002 Message 7 of 23

I have fisted my g/f without added lube but the slipperiest solution I
have found is to prime her pussy with a aqueous gel like KY and apply a
layer of a silicon oil like ID Millennium to your hand or object of choice.

From: Chris & Julie Sent: 18 April 2002 Message 8 of 23

Visitors or residents of Germany could use the recipe provided in the following URL:
http://www.hobbythek.de/archiv/294_2/#4_12

I always pick up these ingredients when over there and it works out very cheap.
My wife prefers it to KY, Astroglide while spit can occasionly cause irritations.
The taste isn't too bad either if you are clit licking at the same time.

C

From: Meeeeeeee3413 Sent: 18 April 2002 Message 9 of 23

try Probe lube it is slick and works well or you can search for a vet lube that is a powder you add water to caled J-Lube both work well and no taste

From: Pete and Carole Sent: 10 Sep. 2002 Message 10 of 23

Eros is a fabulous lube!! It's ungodly expensive but worth every penny of it. Nothing comes close, even Millenium ID lube. ID runs a good second place but nothing beats Eros.

From: tokoloshe Sent: 11 Sep. 2002 Message 11 of 23

Try veterinary lube; Carboxymethylcellulose-natrium.
For sale at every country-supplies store and every horse supplies shop.
It is clear, colourless, tasteless, smell-less, non-allergenic and water-soluble.
Its consistency is somewhere between KY and Wet.
And the best part is: the price is only 3 Euros per 500 ml.
Time to get really slippery my dear fellow constituents.
Have fun.

From: tokoloshe Sent: 11 Sep. 2002 Message 12 of 23

Smell-less? I must be going soft upstairs in the cabeza. I meant odourless of course.
What I forgot to mention is that even though it is marketed for veterinary use, it is exactly the same lubricant as most of the ones you find in the drugstore or ero-shop.
Only the packaging is less fancy. And so is the price of course.
Ever since a fellow ff-fan (no, that isn't a stutter) brought this stuff to my attention, I've been using nothing else. Now you too know the reason why James Herriot (All Creatures Great and Small) always had such a happy smile on his face.............

From: lifeontap Sent: 17 Dec. 2002 Message 13 of 23

My g/f and I have been fisting for about a year or so and Astroglide has definately proved to be the best for us so far. It doesn't cause irritation or infections and it lasts a long time...

From: ALONG_EASY Sent: 10 Nov. 2005 Message 14 of 23

KY is the best lubricant. its tasteless and slippery. good

From: cheekyhowcouldyou Sent: 11 Nov. 2005 Message 15 of 23

hate KY gets gritty after a whie prefer more water based ones then when you cum they get really slippery hahahahaha
dai

From: Joe Sent: 11 Nov. 2005 Message 16 of 23

KY is water-based, at least the ordinary kind of KY Jelly.

From: Wolfcat1369 Sent: 12 Nov. 2005 Message 17 of 23

Here ya go folks your viscosity breakdown of the more well known lubes and lotions; and one mostly unknown ,'cept to us seekers: The winners are.....
#1- KINKYLUBE : made and distributed by P.E.S. (Paradise Electro stimulations) in Las vegas Nevada.This stuff is the friggin best,
comes in powder form and you just add water to the consistancy you desire---Gooey, slick-- and I'll just glide around . Drop half abottle in a bath tub(not hot tub) climb in w/your friend(s) and theres no tellin what will end up ending up where!!! Can be obtained through the P.E.S. website athttp://peselectro.com ....Oh cleans up by rubbing coarse salt over slippery areas
#2 LIQUID SIN : Fantastic ..absoloutely oderless and tasteless,doesn't get thick form length of time exposed to air or friction and is more than slippery enough for most "conventional" applications , including fisting and large objects, cleans up w/rubbing alcahol careful round the genitals...yeah lost me there too, or many,many soap and COLD water attempts.
#3 WET PLATINUM: Used to be my girls 1st choice,..when it "was"the best thing on the mkt. ,and wasn't priced like a barrel or crude oil.
cleans up with? I think thr mfgrs are still trying to answer that one,very dangerous if used near bathtubs hot tubs ,ect as water compounds the slipperiness

The rest of the lubes on the mkt. aren't worth bothering with,unless you like lint,hair and what ever else flying out of nowhere to get in it and cause you and yours nothing but grief...Hope this was helpful .it is brutaly honest...
One couples opinion albiet but PROUDLY researched
WOLFCAT and Crew

From: cheekyhowcouldyou Sent: 14 Nov. 2005 Message 18 of 23

i do but it gets very gritty after awhile and frankly is not that good for using as "slip" when fisting
leigh

From: GhostEasy0247 Sent: 16 Nov. 2005 Message 19 of 23

Personally, I prefer KY Jelly, Its way slick enuf, doesn't have much flavor, and can be slicked right back up if it starts to get tacky with either a little warm water, just a few drops!, or saliva. And clean up is no harder than a good warm soak in the tub, followed by a quick shower with a mild soap! I don't know about other women, but I'm usually pretty near done in after a fisting session and the last thing I wanna do is have to help strip the sheets and scrub up with some kind of degreaser ! ! !

One other thing that I find helps, make sure your hands are clean, soft and moist before you start. While it should go without saying your hands must be as clean and sterile as possible! What many don't realize is that if your hands are dry and rough or callused, they will actually absorb the lubricant! Soak your hands, they will absorb the water, use a good quality moisturizing lotion, such as vaseline intensive care, to soften and further moisten the hands. If you have heavy calluses, you should probably try useing surgical gloves, or coat your hands with a lube like wet platinum , wich is pretty close to being colorless and oderless. We use wet platinum in this capacity a lot and find that DAWN dishwashing liquid will clean it up and it hasen't stained any of our sheets, Linen or Satin, or any of my lingerie either!

I hope this helps, it is from my own personal experiences, and of course once we found what worked for us we pretty much stopped looking for new things. One other thing I have to mention, even tho you've doubtlessly heard it here before, you must be totally relaxed, have full trust in your partner, and want to experiance the feeling of having your partners hand inside of you!

From: Kneebone Sent: 21 Nov. 2005 Message 20 of 23

Another vote here for Wet Platinum. The damn stuff just doesn't quit. Even after using it on quality silicone toys and washing them with soap and water, they still have a slickness to them. Have actually found it on Amazon.com, and am overdue for buying another bottle. The large size, this time. :) Even so, a little goes a long way. Hasn't been an issue in the shower. Then again, I tend to use it sparingly, adding more as needed, rather than just squirting it everywhere. If you tend to like to lube up your tub, then yes, I could see it being a hazard. The same could be said if you slathered 20W50 over your bathtub, so if the manufacturer of Wet were required to answer before the courts, the issue of "intended use" could definitely come into play here. I'm not aware of GE being sued when some idiot decides to stuff a light bulb up his ass and the resulting trip to the hospital which invariably ensues. (We've all heard stories like that.)

Gave up on KY jelly years ago, because it fell into the category of lubes which constantly need to be re-moistened during any intimate activity. If you don't mind constantly spitting on the tacky/sticky bodypart in question, or if you don't mind keeping a spray bottle next to you (or a bowl of water), I guess that could work out. Personally I'd rather have fewer necessities than more. Got my hands full as it is. ;)

Would like to give J-Lube a go sometime. Have read about it on mr-s-leather.com. From the description of Kinkylube which Wolfcat1369 posted, it sounds like the same stuff. Originally created for veterinary use.

As far as worrying about getting bed linen messed up, my wife is a gushy squirter anyway, so we always plan ahead. Throw down a sheet of plastic, and at least one folded towel (what we call the "fuck towel") for absorption. If the fluids/lube aren't stopped by the towels, they're certainly stopped by the plastic. To improvise a plastic sheet, just get a box of those white medium-sized garbage bags (usually for kitchen use), cut one down one side and the bottom, and unfold.

From: MistakenGenes Sent: 22 Nov. 2005 Message 21 of 23

KY is the stuff you should use, its works for me and the wife!!!

From: 5775esben Sent: 11 Dec. 2005 Message 22 of 23

There are several good lubricants in the marketplace.

1. Slam-Dunk
2. Elbow grease
3. Fist
4. LUBE
5. J-Lube

The cheapest in the long run is probably J-Lube. From one bottle of powder you can make up to 25 liters of lubricant. All this for about $10 - $25 depending on where you do your shopping.
Mix it in the following way:
1 part of J-Lube to 16 parts of water.
Ex. 32 spoonfuls of water in a bowl. Turn on your mixer and add 2 spoonfuls of J-Lube to the water while mixing. This will give you approx. 250 ml (~9 fl. oz.) of lubricant which will last a while. Pour it into a sterile bottle (or a bottle that has just been scolded with boiling water). It is a good idea to mix it the day before you need it because the consistence of the J-Lube settles and air-bubles leaves the lube.

Slam-Dunk is made specially for anal fisting but is perfect for vaginal fisting aswell.
Quote
"A very good lube for heavy assplay and fisting. Slam Dunk contains the finest quality ingredients, such as Hydrogenated Oils, Polyethylene Polymer Dispersing Agent, Mineral Oils, Clove Oil, and Distilled Water. The Clove Oil makes your ass tingle and slightly numb. Slam Dunk is non-toxic.
Because this product is oil-based it cannot be combined with condoms!!" Unquote

I can recommend Slam-Dunk becaude the numbing effect make you more durable and you can carry on for longer. You can infact start with a litlle of Slam-Dunk and continue with f.ex. J-Lube.

Esben

From: carnal Sent: 16 Dec. 2005 Message 23 of 23

hi,

Well if i may add I have exprienced Chrisco and it has wokred wonders never felt any friction or discomfert with it. I just picked up the idea from the net i cant remember wherefrom though. If any one agrees please share itso the other members can enjoy a very and an excelent lube.

Luv